Thursday, July 26, 2012

My Official Statement: Twihard Meltdown 2012

I feel like offering my condolences to the thousands of heart broken fans all over the world (including myself) would be the best way of starting this off. Sadly truth is, no matter how personal this is to us or how "invested" we are, at the end of the say its not our relationship and not our problem.

Kristen Stewart has been raked under the coals for the past two days over cheating allegations that I am not at liberty to say are true or not. There have been pics released and the last time I checked the motto of this shipper fandom has always been..."pics or it didn't happen" and now that isn't acceptable? Now the problem with these pics are they appear to obviously be photo shopped. I mean really c'mon US Weekly I have seen teens in my twitter feed with better graphic arts skills than your people! So where does this leave us? Confused.

Then around lunch time yesterday (lunch for me who knows what time it was for you) People magazine released an official statement from Kristen Stewart herself expressing how sorry she was to everyone but most to the one she loved, Robert. Did anyone else notice that she just outed herself? Kind of fishy for someone who has been so tight lipped on her 3 or 4 year relationship with her co-star. For crying out loud they have just recently in the last few days resorted to public hand holding!  Status of the fandom? Still Confused.

To add fuel to the fire Rupert Sanders in turn released an official statement expressing his deepest regrets to his wife and children...blah blah blah no one cares you dirty perv. So this put everyone in a much different place. This solidified all of the claims. Gossip mags and sites were busting at the seams with this story and then television shows chimed in which caused what I have heard as the Twihard Meltdown of 2012!

Fans have sent Kristen death threats or wishing death upon her among other horrific things. She is probably right now as we speak one of the most hated people in the world. It seemed as if the fandom, who were once so close knit, split in three different directions. One group, no matter how much of a "Krisbian" they claim to be, went directly for the juggler and is ready to cast Kristen off the island. The second group has made it known they will NEVER believe Kristen cheated even if she did it right in front of their faces. And then there is the group that either a) doesn't really know what to believe b) don't really care either way or c) plan to support the two no matter what has happened. Yes, the third group would be where I fit in.

She is a young girl. She is 22 years young as a matter of fact. If in fact these rumors are true then so be it. She doesn't owe anyone an explanation except Rob and I feel pretty confident in these two that if it is true...it has been discussed and dealt with and they will be moving forward (hopefully together). What grinds my gears is the thousands of dedicated fans who expect something more from her. So what if your fairy tale has been tainted?! Rob and Kristen live in reality just like the rest of us. She owes you NOTHING.

You can judge her (or Rupert for that matter) but always remember when you judge someone you DO NOT define them, but define yourself. Try to realize somewhere in your prickly Twi hearts that these two are not the immortals we have dreamed them up to be...they aren't our real life Edward and Bella...they are people. And right now I am pretty sure regardless of what's true and what's not...these two are suffering beyond reason because of this.

So what does this mean for Robsten? Who knows? Let them work it out and wait and see. Chances are if Rob cares about Kristen the way it seems...he'll be a little reluctant but will give her the chance to convince him otherwise, but if he doesn't he just doesn't. Life goes on and they will still be our Edward and Bella and truthfully maybe we could all actually get a life instead of camping out on Twitter every night waiting for a pic or a sighting. If he does decide to work things out with her, I am curious how all of these "Rob supporters" will act. If you support him, you support his decisions and she would be his decision and the hate would have to stop or you couldn't really consider yourself a true supporter. Right?

My advice to you all is...go on and live your own life because I am sure Kristen, Rob, and Rupert are living theirs, not losing any sleep over how you all feel. They are adults, so let them work it out how they need to. So in other words....Love. Peace. Twilight.


14 comments:

  1. FANTASTIC!!!!!! :)

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  2. Thank you. A reality check I needed. Agree with your sentiments

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  3. Well said!!! I am amazed at how many perfect people there are in the world, people who have never made a mistake, never hurt someone they love, never had to beg for forgiveness.

    For all the people attacking Kristen, Rob will be the first one to wrap his arms around her and protect her from all this hate, not matter how hurt he is.

    Let them work in out between themselves. No one knows if they will stay together or not, that is their decision, but, please, let them have peace to do it without all the hate.

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  4. I was really freaking out because of the situation because I was not sure what to think about it, but thanks to you I just realised have crazy my thoughts were.

    You are totally right. In the end they can do whatever they want to do. It is their lives.

    I guess as a die-hard fan I can only hope that they will be able to figure out how to proceed and that their decision will be positive news for real fans.

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  5. He'd be a total loser if he didn't dump the little slut.

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  6. Its so sad to see the road some of these fans are taking. They are losing friends...shutting down websites...fanfictions. Its insane! We need to all remember what brought us together in the first place...it wasnt Rob and Kristen it was Twilight and thank the lord that is still in tact.

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  7. Sad news to know a couple is spitting because one of them just cheated. Awww ! ): but Edward and Bella are fiction characters, people always think the actors are perfect as the characters... Well, they're not - they're humans like us. Sorry about the bad english, i'm from Brazil and speak portuguese and french only ;)

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  8. Thank you so much for your opinions...it's best we let all of these feelings out online instead of acting irrational in our real lives like some have

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  9. hello i agree with MR. Brazil were all human we all make mistakes including the one Kristen made, just because she is also a movie star does not mean everyone can treat her like she is a pariah.i also feel some people should watch there mouth when talking about females no matter what they did.What i say next is to Rob, i don't know if it is true or not but i had the same problem with my girl awhile back and i forgave her and gave her a second chance maybe you should to.BY the way i love the movies and all the actors hope to see you all in other movies.Thank you.

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  10. I have to admit that though I realize the Kristen is young; she is also intelligent to know that this "little fling" may have huge consequences. What about her Balinciaga campaign? With her popularity taking a hit, they may fire her as she is not so attractive anymore. And what is the Summit going to do? I am sure the are frantic over there. Rob and Kristen are going to have to promote the movie and I am sorry but, alot of the reason I loved seeing them on screen is directly attributed to their off screen romance. If Rob does not publicly forgive her; I fear that she is going to have a hard time of it. I would definitely like for him to forgive her and take her back but.. I would understand if he didn't. My prayers go out to his heart. If u are reading this Rob... I know it feels like death but remember, she may have had a hand in causing your stardom but no one can sustain it but you. With or without her, you'll be fine. You have us, your devoted fans. We care.

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  11. OMG! You have no idea of how i felt when i heard about this cheating scandal. I felt like Kristen was horrible and Rob deserved better. But your post showed me I was being ridicules. They're both better than that. Word spread out pretty fast about them. I feel so sorry:(

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  12. Kristen admitted she cheated on Robert

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  13. Does anybody know how many orange trucks were built for the movie? (Bella's 1962 chevrolet pickup truck) I heard that they used more than one and I just saw one on ebay. Does anyone know which movie (1st,2nd, 3rd etc.) it was on?

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